Thanks for the good wishes to everyone who posted. I'm drowning in email and such, but wanted to say thank you. A friend also gave me gas money to get to the memorial service next week - which blew my mind.
And a guy that my husband is working with is semi-homeless and keeps giving us bread. My freezer is full of bread. It's so awesome.
This has been a very full day and everyone is exhausted, so I am going to follow my wise husband's example and go to sleep.